Onions And Moving Day

Posted on February 12, 2007

Week 17

Baby’s Length: 5 in.

Baby’s Weight: 3.5 oz.

Baby’s Size: Onion

Good thing I like onions. I didn’t use to though… Before I got pregnant, I would pick onions off of whatever I was eating, regardless of who was watching. I hated them and couldn’t bring myself to eat them. Then I got pregnant… Now I love them.

Same with mushrooms, bananas, and cauliflower. I suddenly like those damn things! It’s bizarre and making me think I’ve lost my mind. I still hate swiss cheese though… so I can’t have lost my mind completely. Just mostly.

Pregnancy is still going fantastic. No complaints! I swear the baby is taking kick boxing lessons. And I know it’s only going to get worse! I can’t believe how much the baby actually moves now. We’re talking at least 10 times a day for 1-10 minutes each time. It’s really cool though. It makes me feel like we’re connected and like everything is okay…

Still haven’t called to make the appointment for the dating ultrasound and to find out the sex of the baby. Life has just been so crazy these last couple weeks!!!

For all of those not keeping track, I moved on Saturday. I am now a real New Hampshire resident.

My best friend Jaclyn and her boyfriend Elijah, my brother in law Dougie, Dan and I packed up the U-Haul on Sat morning and drove to our new apartment. It took 41/2 hours to pack the U-Haul and 3 hours to unpack it. As we were finishing unloading, my mom came to drop off our new couch and glider rocker and then pick up the extra furniture we weren’t going to use.

After that, we went out to eat at a fancy little Chinese restaurant called the Tea Garden. I couldn’t believe that there was no one there on a Saturday night! Made me wonder if there was something I should know, that everyone else in town did… The food was absolutely fabulous though. Unless I hear otherwise, I’m definitely going to go back.

I won’t bore you with the dramatic details of our move. Thankfully, no one got hurt, U-Haul wasn’t a pain in the ass this time, the apartment is wonderful, and we finally have all of our belongings in one spot. Yay!

This morning at 3:00am, Dan left to go to the airport. He has a business trip this week in Texas. So I’ll be here all by my lonesome until Thursday afternoon. Yes, he’s going to miss Valentine’s Day. 🙁 It’s a lot of work unpacking everything by myself and I wish Danny was here, but he wouldn’t be much help if he was here anyway. I think it might actually be better that I get to unpack everything by myself. I won’t be getting mad at Dan for not helping me the whole time!! lol

I finished unpacking the kitchen and setting everything up in there yesterday. Today, I worked on the bathroom. I’m almost done in there… I think I’m going to try to work on the living room next, but I’m not sure. I should do laundry, but I don’t have any quarters.

So, I just wanted to take a little break, sit down for a few minutes. Thought you might appreciate a quick update! This is the first time I have sat down at a computer for more than 5 minutes, since last Wednesday when I was in California. Speaking of which, I will post more pictures from that trip soon.

Filed under: Everyday Life , Pregnancy

Duckies And Palm Trees

Posted on February 05, 2007

Week 16

Baby’s Length: 4.66 in.

Baby’s Weight: 3 oz.

Baby’s Size: Rubber Ducky

I’m posting from the beautiful La Jolla, California! It’s gorgeous here and warm. Oh how I was longing for the heat!!

We flew in yesterday and it took all damn day… We left for the airport at 9:00am and didn’t get into our hotel room here until 2:00am our time (although it was only 11:00pm in reality). The flight from Boston to Pennsylvania was HORRIBLE. There was so much turbulence, I was sure we were going to crash and die. We didn’t though… I couldn’t believe I was so nervous about flying!! I had flown to Florida and back before, but it was about 10 years ago, so it was a whole new experience.

When we got to Penn, we had to wait 3 hours for our next flight. So we grabbed some lunch that I hated and could barely choke down. When I finished the Phili Chicken Sub, Dan informed me that it had swiss cheese in it. No wonders why I hated it!! Little poop…

The 6 hour flight from Penn to Cali was long, but smooth. We got to watch a movie on Danny’s laptop, read a magazine (Dan actually read Cosmopolitan with me! Shhh…) took a quick nap, and we were there! It was a really looooong day though and we both fell asleep on the beds in here as soon as we got our hotel room.

The baby loved flying though. It kicked and twisted and pocked at me the entire time we were flying. Then when we were in the airport waiting for the next flight, it would be still. Then we got on the next plane and he went at it again!! The little bambino was so active!

This morning when we woke up, we took a nice hot shower, and then went downstairs for free breakfast. When we came back to our room, I dragged Dan outside with me to take a bunch of pictures. I love it here!!! It’s so beautiful…

Here’s the proof:

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Belly – Week 16

Dan just took this belly pic of me before he left this morning. (He’s here on business, even though this is a vacation for me!) Aren’t I getting huge?! I can’t believe how big my belly is getting sometimes… It still surprises me when I pass a mirror. Doesn’t look like me! I’m not used to this!!

Filed under: Belly Pics , Photography , Pregnancy , Vacations

Birth Plan

Posted on February 01, 2007

My friend Tammie over at Soul Gardening posted about her “Birth Plan” today. Coincidentally, it’s extremely similar to my plans. She has a way of saying things in a such a clear, direct way. I love it.

Check out her post:

I’m planning for a midwife attended birth, at a birthing center rather than a hospital. As long as I remain free of complications for the next 11 weeks, we should be all set for a natural, low-tech water birth.

The facility we’ve chosen is more like a cozy Bed and Breakfast than a medical office and Jeff and I will be basically left alone to labor on our own. I’m planning to hire a doula to be there with advice and encouragement, but for the most part, it’ll just be Jeff and I, with visits from the midwife and her assistant to monitor our progress and check on the baby every so often. We’re taking classes this month in hypnobirthing to help with relaxation and pain management.

To me, childbirth is not a disease or a condition to be treated or “dealt” with. It’s my body, doing what it was made to do. It will be the most challenging thing I have ever done I know, but I’m really excited for the prospect. [MORE…]

I love how no one argued with her or tried to talk her out of her decision in the comments.

It seems like when I tell friends and family what I’m doing, I must say it in such a way where they feel like the subject is still up for debate. And other times, it’s like as soon as I open my mouth people automatically assume that I haven’t thought my decision through completely and they need to “talk me out of it” because it’s not something they would do.

When I originally told my mom in law that I wanted a midwife, she spent 6 days in a row trying to talk me out of it. I nodded my head politely and didn’t bother disagreeing with what she was saying. (I tend to do that with most people… Still left over from dealing with my mom I think.) She has a way of making me feel like I don’t know anything and I should listen to her. And lots of times she is right, because she is older and wiser than me and I have a lot to learn from such a amazing person. I took her advice into consideration and contemplated taking the more standard route of giving birth in a hospital. But then I remembered that this is MY baby and MY birth. Dan and I should be able to do what we are comfortable with, not what other people think we should do.

Since we made that decision, I haven’t had the guts to actually sit down and talk with her and explain to her what we are doing. It’s not because I think she’ll yell or anything, it’s just that I don’t like talking to people about things I know they won’t agree with. Does that make me weak?

It seems like every time I tell certain people what I’m doing, they always tell me I’m wrong and I should do it a different way. Am I not assertive enough? Do I have a sign on my forehead that says “Argue with me! I love it!”??

How come I always seem to welcome that kind of attention? I’m looking for honest answers here because this is something that has really been bothering me…

(Sorry comments were turned off. I don’t know how that happened!)

Filed under: Pregnancy

We Got It!

Posted on February 01, 2007

We got the apartment!! *does little happy dance*

Dan and I are going to sign the lease this Saturday and we move on February 10th!! I am so happy and relieved that we finally found a place and we’ll be able to settle down and relax in our own place for the first time since August.

As much as I love my in laws, I can’t wait to get out of here. Everyone gets on my nerves after a while, no matter how much I love them. The only person in the whole world I can spend more than a week with and not want to kill, is Dan. And that’s why I married him! haha

I’m going with Danny boy to California for 5 days next week! It’s a business trip for him and I decided to tag along. I’ve never been to California before, so I thought it would be nice to go on a little vacation (first one since the honeymoon), soak up a little bit of sun, and maybe I’ll even get to go swimming.

The day after we get back from Cali, we move to the new apartment. I know, talk about a lot of stress, right? It shouldn’t be too bad. My bro-in-law and my best friend Jaclyn and her boyfriend are going to help us move, so that is going to be a huge help. We’re hoping to get it all done in one day, providing that it doesn’t snow that day. I’m keeping my fingers crossed!

So, just 2 more days here, then 5 days in Cali, one more night here at the in laws, and then into the new apartment. Oh God, you have no idea how much I am looking forward to being in my own place.

My very own little place, with my dishes and my food. A place where I can relax and watch what I want to watch on TV. Finally, a place where I can get uninterrupted sleep and not constantly feel like I have overstayed my welcome. I could go on and on, but I don’t want to give the impression that I can’t stand my in-laws… Cause I don’t! I’ve just been here way too long.

Sorry I didn’t post a belly pic yesterday… My belly hasn’t changed much since the last time I posted a picture of it. It looks about the same size, except that you can actually see the bottom of my belly button, which was previously thought to be a bottomless pit in my stomach. I will take a pic next week and hopefully my belly will look bigger by then!

Ooooh, baby just kicked! The little bambino likes it when mommy blogs I guess…

Saw this on BabyGaga.com and just had to share:


Filed under: Announcements , Pregnancy

Oranges And Cream

Posted on January 29, 2007

Week 15

Baby’s Length: 4 in.

Baby’s Weight: 1.75 oz.

Baby’s Size: Orange

It’s scary to think about how big the baby is already. By the first week of March, I will be half way through my pregnancy. It seems like just yesterday I was fretting over whether the pregnancy test was really positive or not. And look at how far I’ve come from then. It’s just really hard to believe when you sit back and think about it. I guess time really does fly when you’re having fun!

I’m sorry if all of my posts are about baby related things nowadays. My world kinda revolves around my pregnancy right now. And besides… my blog really wasn’t that interesting before anyway. At least I actually have something to blog about now, even if it’s not all that interesting!

Let’s see… something not baby related… Ah yes! Dan and I finally found the perfect apartment! We went to see it on Saturday and both of us loved it. Dan was very skeptical about moving before because he really didn’t like any of the apartments we went to see, but when he saw this one, I think he fell in love.

It’s a 1 bedroom, unlike all the 2 bedrooms apartments we went to see before. However, it’s twice the size of most of the 2 bedroom apartments we looked at. At only $850 a month with water, electric, and heat included, well you can’t get any better than that! It has a large kitchen with plenty of storage and counter tops, a good sized living room with a big window, a very large bedroom with a huge walk-in closet, and a really nice bathroom with storage under the sink as well as a bunch of shelving in the corners. The best part? The washer and dryer/laundry room is right outside of our front door and we only share it with one other apartment. Sounds too good to be true, doesn’t it?

Dan is bringing the completed application by the landlord’s office today. The Landlord is a RE/MAX real estate agent. I don’t think “Landlord” is his primary occupation though. Seems like it’s just a side job/hobby for him.

If you are the praying type, please pray that we get this apartment!! If we do, we will be moving in two weeks. I can’t wait!!!!!!!!!!! I just want to settle in somewhere where I will be comfortable and WARM!

Now, if you know anything about me, you know that I try to be ultra prepared. Remember when I was moving down from Northern Maine to Southern Maine and I packed everything about 2 weeks before we actually had to move and I spent the last week in that apartment trying to live around piles of boxes that were stacked to the ceiling? Well, I decided not to do that this time around.

And you remember how I packed everything in neat little boxes and taped purple index cards that were neatly labeled on each box? Yeah, not going to do that either. Mostly because, everything I packed in August is still packed. I only need to pack up a bunch of clothes, pots and pans, a few small dishes and plates, and towels, shampoo etc. Since I will be at my in-laws until we move, I won’t have barely any time at all to go back to the campground and pack up those few things. When we go there with the U-Haul, I will have to throw all of the already packed items from August into the truck and then throw all the remaining unpacked items in black trash bags to save time. THAT should be interesting…

Something I can rest easy about – I am almost done buying the majority of things that I need for the baby. Talk about prepared in advance! I know, I know… I just like to get things done and out of the way as quickly as possible so that if something comes up at the last minute, I don’t have to worry. The only items I have left to buy are the big items like the crib, the changing table, the bureau, and the rocking chair, as well as a few standard items like diapers, onesies, bottles, etc.

I don’t remember if I mentioned it before, but I decided to do the nursery in the Classic Winnie The Pooh theme. I much prefer the old pooh to the new pooh, although I grew up watching the “new pooh” on TV. If you aren’t familiar with pooh, here is a quick reference to go by:

Classic Pooh           Modern Pooh


So I have been buying all things Classic Pooh. I got the crib bumper, blankets, crib sheets, dust ruffle, crib toy, stuffed pooh (and his friends), and more. I’ve been able to find everything I want and more on eBay for less than half the price it would cost in stores. Plus, Target seems to have the rights to selling all things classic pooh, and I won’t shop at Target because they support abortion. So, the only other place I could buy the classic pooh items was on eBay!

And I’ll admit, I’ve also bought a few non-gender specific baby clothes that are also “Classic Pooh” and are mostly cream colored. I hate pink and blue clothes anyway. It’s so cliché! I never wore pink when I was a baby… I’m going to wait until I find out the sex of the baby before I buy more clothing, but I do like the things I already bought and they are perfect, no matter what the gender is.

Now I have a question for you guys… When you were pregnant with your first baby, did you have a baby shower? If so, did you get to plan it yourself, or was it a surprise baby shower thrown for you by a close friend? I’ve been told that you are “not allowed” to plan your own baby shower and I tend to believe that is hogwash, so I am wondering what your thoughts are on this. Please let me know!!!

Filed under: Pregnancy , Pro-Life

Friday Musings

Posted on January 26, 2007

I just upgraded to the newest version of WordPress. So far, I like it alot, but there are still a few things I am trying to figure out. For some reason my links aren’t showing up in the sidebar to the right. Be patient with me though! I just need time… and more brain cells.

When I woke up this morning it was -5° outside and about 50° inside. Just toasty, eh?

On a happier, warmer note — I went for a sonogram last night! Got to hear the baby’s heartbeat for the first time. I’m now convinced there is actually a baby in there!!! lol

I need to go for a dating ultrasound soon because none of us can figure out how far along I am. I calculated 14 weeks along by now, but if my calculations were correct, according to when I ovulated, I also wouldn’t be pregnant! So I suspect I am at least 15 weeks into this pregnancy. I need to find out soon! Gosh, who knows… I could be 20 weeks and not know it.

Dan and I took a trip down to Massachusetts to go see my primary physician so I could finally get my prescription for Advair renewed. My asthma has been soooo bad for the past 3 weeks, since I ran out of my meds. One more week without it and I definitely would have gone into the hospital. Luckily though, I have it now and I am breathing much better today. Being able to breath is a luxury that most people take advantage of.

After a visit to my doctor, we went to take a tour of a birthing center nearby. They offer things like home birth, water birth, prenatal yoga classes, lactation consultation, and all kinds of great stuff. I was very interested in the water birth, which was how I found the birthing center to begin with.

The woman who ran the place was extremely easy to get along with, very find, polite, and warm. She explained everything about the center and answered all of our questions. It was a great experience.

After much thought and talking, Dan and I decided that we were going to have our baby at that birthing center. I am very excited that we finally made a decision and it is one that I am very comfortable and happy with. However, when we told the mom-in-law, she almost had a stroke. She hates midwives and natural birth options, etc. But that’s okay. To each his own!!

Much to my disgust, we are still looking for an apartment. Picky? Yeah, I guess we are. I don’t want to spend 1/2 of my husband’s paycheck each month on a tiny apartment in the bad side of town. All the good apartments in our price range don’t allow dogs. It just seems ridiculous! However, we do have faith that we will soon find an apartment that is affordable and has the amenities we are looking for. Please keep us in your prayers!!

Filed under: Everyday Life , Pregnancy

Get A Better Browser

Posted on January 19, 2007

Tell me… why is there anyone left on this planet who uses Internet Explorer???

Is it because they are lazy and don’t feel like getting something better? Is it because they are afraid of having to learn how to use a new browser? Or is it simple because they just don’t know any better?

If you spend more than 1 hour a day on the internet, you will find huge benefits to downloading a better browser.

Let me introduce you to a little miracle called Firefox. If you already use it, congrats to you!! If you don’t, and you’ve heard of it before, how come you haven’t downloaded it yet?!?!?!?!

Benefits to using Firefox:

    1.) A huge decrease in the number of deadly computer Viruses entering your computer.

    2.) Websites display properly as the programing for Firefox is done correctly. If you enjoy HTML or building websites, you will notice this immediately.

    3.) Faster page loads. Firefox works faster and more streamline on your computer and doesn’t freeze up constantly like Internet Explorer does.

    4.) More options. Firefox keeps your browsing sessions a lot more secure and spyware-free. And to top it all off, it also supports the standards religiously and has a wide range of powerful features.

    5.) Tabbed browsing. Instead of having many windows open, you only have one window open with many tabs. This keeps your computer running faster and your taskbar a lot less cluttered.

    6.) Built in spell checker. Never make spelling mistakes again!

    7.) Firefox offers a wide variety of Themes to give your browser the look you want. I use Noia 2.0 Extreme. You can download as many different themes as you want and change them to suit your mood.

    8.) You can also download many different of Extensions and Plugins. Below is a list of all the Extensions I have and use daily.

Extensions I Use

* Clippings 2.5 (awesome for bloggers)
* AdBlock Plus (blocks ads and popups)
* Colorful Tabs (fun extension)
* CoLT (my fav extension)
* ConQuery (looks things up quicker)
* FireFoxMenuButtons (very handy)
* Forecastfox (local weather on your browser)
* FoxyTunes (controls any media player)
* ShortShip Pro (Sort eBay listings by total cost)
* Tab Mix Plus (best extension ever)
* Download Statusbar (view and manage downloads)

Are you convinced yet? Take the Firefox Challenge. Download Firefox and use it for one week or at least 10 hours. Take a look at all the cool extensions, the colorful themes, and experience how much faster and easier Firefox is to use. I guarantee that you will be addicted!

If you already use Firefox, leave a comment and share with us all the reasons why you love Firefox.

Filed under: Recommended , Technology

Belly – Week 13

Posted on January 17, 2007

My belly is getting rounder all the time. My mother-in-law is convinced I am having a boy because I’m growing so fast!!

When I first found out that I was pregnant, I immediately told my husband that it was a boy. Ever since then though, I have held my hopes out for a girl. Can’t know yet though… Have 3 or 4 weeks to go before you can accurately tell the sex of the baby, although technically it’s sex organs are almost fully formed at this point.

Before I got pregnant, I looked for blogs that documented pregnancies, but it doesn’t seem to be a popular blogging subject. Either that, or I didn’t search very well.

My friend Tammie, over at Soul Gardening has posted a couple belly pics and I enjoy that immensely. I wish more people would do that!! Pregnant bellies are so gorgeous. At least I think so…

I haven’t bought many maternity clothes yet. I have 3 pairs of maternity pants, a few tank tops that I wear underneath my 1 maternity cardigan, 1 turtleneck shirt, 3 long sleeve shirts shirts, and 2 beautiful dresses that I bought at Motherhood Maternity in the mall. I bought this beautiful brown one and this gorgeous kimono style dress. I’m wearing the brown one in this picture!

My favorite maternity item so far is a pair of brown pants I bought at Old Navy. They have a wide waist band you can fold over. Plus, they are super soft, making them uberly comfy.

What maternity clothing did you get the most out of during your pregnancy? Were there certain items you wouldn’t have been able to live without? Please tell!

Filed under: Belly Pics , Pregnancy

Shuffle And Kick

Posted on January 15, 2007

Week 13

Baby’s Length: 3 inches

Baby’s Weight: 0.75 ounces

Baby’s Size: iPod Shuffle

Last week, I felt strange little feelings in my abdomen. It happened only a few times, and I couldn’t tell what it was. I questioned whether it was the baby or not, but passed it off as my stomach gurgling.

On Wednesday (1/10) I was laying on my back next to Dan on my mother-in-law’s water bed when I felt it again. It made me remember that she had told me only a few weeks earlier that I should be able to touch my abdomen and feel my uterus growing in size. I wasn’t able to find it the first time I looked for it, so I asked for further instruction. This time I was able to find it with ease and was quite surprised at how large it felt!!

I gently prodded at it and moved it back and forth from side to side in amazement at it’s mass and the odd sensation I felt inside. Seconds later, I felt what seemed like a very pronounced thud in the middle of my uterus. “I think I just felt the baby!” I exclaimed and gently pressed my hand against my stomach. I waited another few seconds and felt it again! It was such a wonderfully odd feeling, but I knew right away that what I was feeling was my baby.

It happened several more times within a 5 minute span and I was absolutely delighted. I think moving my uterus around pissed off the baby! “Hey, who’s rocking the damn boat up there!!” I imagined it was thinking… (Yes, my baby swears already…)

Over the next few days, I felt it at least once a day at one point or another. It is easy to identify now and it makes me smile every time I feel it. My little baby is moving!

Growing a baby inside of you is such an amazing thing. It started off to be very taxing, but for the first time so far, I am actually enjoying this. Maybe being pregnant isn’t so miserable afterall.

According to what I read online, the baby is actually starting to look like a baby now. It has tiny fingers and toes!

Swellings on the side of the neck show where the baby’s ears will be, and the insides of the ears are forming. On the head are the start of lips on a mouth that can already open and close, and a bit of a nose. Eyelids, which will fuse together and stay closed for a few months, are growing over developing eyes.

The reproductive organs are among the last to form. In the middle of the month, testes have formed in boys and ovaries in girls, but the external sex organs still look similar in both sexes. Hopefully by the first week of February though, I will be able to have an ultrasound that will determine whether we are having a girl or a boy.

I’m totally routing for a girl, but I have the distinct feeling that it’s a boy. Call it mother’s intuition.

Filed under: Pregnancy

Play-Doh In My Tummy

Posted on January 08, 2007

Week 12

Baby’s Length: 2.5 inches

Baby’s Weight: 0.5 ounces

Baby’s Size: Container of Play-Doh

Lunar Month 4, 12 wks LMP (10 wks gestation)

No wonders why I feet fat and bloated. It’s that little bucket of Play-Doh in my tummy! Now if that doesn’t give someone morning sickness, I don’t know what would…

My biggest complaint however, is not morning sickness. I’ve learned how to avoid inevitable barfing. I’ve learned what things feel good in my stomach and which ones definitely, do not. I’m still getting used to the cravings, but those are pretty tolerable right now. The one thing I can’t stand is the nasal congestion.

Pregnancy.org says: “Feeling congested? Nasal congestion is common during pregnancy from swelling in the mucous membranes.”

I have had a continuous sinus headache since week 4 or 5. It feels like I have a sinus infection all the time. Some days are worse than others, and so far I haven’t found anything that helps. I keep a box of tissues with me at all times and everyone around me has gotten pretty used to me blaring my fog horn at all hours of the day. I swear, I should invest in stocks in the tissue company. I would get rich.

I didn’t realize that there were this many changes so early in pregnancy. For the first few weeks I was pregnant, I didn’t dare vocalize all the things that were going on and changing in my body because I was afraid that people wouldn’t believe me and think I was being over dramatic. (I can be pretty dramatic sometimes.)

Previously, before getting pregnant, I didn’t think that early pregnancy was that hard to deal with except for the morning sickness. I didn’t think my boobs suddenly going up a cup size was going to be that big of a deal. Sounded kinda cool, but I didn’t think it would hurt so damn bad! I didn’t think that I would get back aches and headaches. Isn’t that for after the baby is born and you have to listen to it scream and carry it around all the time? I didn’t think I would have to get up and pee 4-8 times in the middle of the night. I thought that was only for late pregnancy! Boy was I wrong.

I now realize that those “early pregnancy symptoms” are for real early and it just gets worse from there!

Now, there are so many different things going on, I can barely remember what’s happening this week, what’s supposed to happen next week, and what stopped happening last week!

Filed under: Pregnancy

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